The Intimacy of OTK Spankings

 While the dad/boy relationship is by nature “intimate,” in my view the acts of giving or receiving an over the knee spanking are the most intimate part of that relationship.  

Physical Proximity 

For an OTK spanking the boy is placed face down over his dad’s lap.  This creates a high level of physical connection between the two.  The boy can feel his dad’s strong thighs as he lays across them and his dad’s hand holding him firmly in place.  Dad has the powerful physical connection of his boy’s weight in his lap, with the boy’s crotch pressed against his thigh.

Level of Dress

Most boys are either striped of all clothing or at the very least have their bottoms bared for the spanking.  Dads are usually fully dressed. This necessitates interaction between the two with the boy naked, creating a very intimate experience for both dad and boy.

Clear Definition of the Dad/Boy Roles

There is a very clear definition of the dad/boy relationship during an OTK spanking.  The boy is reduced to his basic “boy’ role by laying over his dad’s knee with his bare bottom up and on display for his dad’s benefit.  In this humiliating position, the boy can be his true self.  There is no need for him to “pretend” to be a fully grown man.  Once

you are face down with your bare bottom in the air and completely under your dad’s control, you fully become a boy.  For dad it is all reversed.  With a naked boy over your knee and fully under your physical control, you realize your full “dad” role.  You are in full control both physically and emotionally.  You will be deciding exactly what happens to this boy in the near future.  This clear definition of roles shows a very high degree of intimacy.

The Spanking Itself

All spankings are designed to punish and correct the boy’s behavior.  What I find different about being over my dad’s knee for my spanking is the very obvious connection between my dad’s displeasure and disappointment and his hard hand on my bare bottom.  Our physical proximity and my bare genitals pressing into his lap emphasize that this is “my dad” taking his own time to give me the discipline I need and deserve.  For my dad, having me so fully under his control, is an affirmation of his dominant role.  The very statement “young man, I’m going to pull your pants down, put you across my knee and smack your bare behind hard,” is perhaps the purest statement of parental control.

Conclusion

I believe all dad/boy relationships should include OTK spankings even if other forms of discipline and spanking are used.  All boys need to go over their dads’ knees once in a while!

Above video is me getting an OTK Spanking

Above video is me giving an OTK spanking