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I've seen some of these before, but hopefully some new ones for you.  

Actually, boys have very few responsibilities during spankings, although they are, of course, full participants in the event. Their primary responsibility is to ensure that their bottoms are correctly positioned.  Dads need full access to the boys' bottoms and while most dads will certainly give complete instructions on how they want the boys to present their bottoms, once the spanking begins, the boys themselves are generally in charge of ensuring they maintain their positions. This can be testing, especially if the spanking is severe.  The impulse to protect your bottom is a strong one.  This could include covering your bottom with a hand or indeed, moving your bottom out of the line of fire. Neither of these options, of course, are permissible and either one would no doubt warrant increased punishment. Beyond the practicalities, the boy is in charge of the aesthetics as well.  Part of the appeal of spanking is its visual appeal.  A properly presented bottom can be a

Here you see me in the kitchen dressed in my Houseboy uniform. Here you can see the practicality of the uniform, as I can be corrected without the need to remove it.

The photos above show spanking star Buttblazer tanning a naughty boy's bare bottom with his clothes brush. I also had the honor of feeling that hairbrush on my bottom.  The photos above are of me over Buttblazer's knee getting my bare bottom soundly spanked with that same brush.  That brush really stung!  Just like it's supposed to!  I had misbehaved and Buttblazer spanked me - exactly as I deserved. His brush is perfect for spanking naughty boys like me. The photo to the left is me about an hour after that spanking.  You can see my bottom is still definitely red and sore.  The brush's hard wood back is more than a match for even the toughest boy's bottom. Every dad should have a brush like this one ready to hand to keep the naughty boys in your life controlled.  

Me wearing shorts that don't really hide the fact that I've been spanked recently!

If you are "the dad" in a relationship, your role comes with certain responsibilities.  You are in charge of discipline in the relationship.  If you are required to enforce discipline, it will fall to you to put "the boy" over your knee and tan his bare bottom. It is your duty to make this spanking "memorable" for the boy.  This means that the spanking needs to hurt - a lot!  If it doesn't hurt it's a waste of time. When I am spanking a boy, I smack him hard otherwise it won't do him any good.  You are doing him no favors.  He needs to hate the spanking.  So when it's time to spank, do it properly!  Give him the spanking he deserves. A naughty boy needs a sound spanking and it's your job to give it to him!   

If you are reading this, you have the “spanking fetish” (kink, bug – call it what you will).  This fetish seems to be lifelong for most of us and I believe it is one of the more complicated of the fetishes encompassing as it does sexuality, domination & submission, BDSM, age regressions and possibly other areas of the psyche. Today, however, I only really wish to address one aspect – that of sexuality.  How much of a role does sexuality play in spanking?  Of course this varies for all, so I can only answer for myself.  Let me begin by stating how I have evolved in the spanking world.  I started off exclusively as a sub, a boy, but I have evolved later in life into a dom, a dad.  The reason for this, I believe, is how I view spanking sexually. The focal point of any spanking is the boy’s bottom.  That’s primarily what the spanking is all about after all!!  How important is the attractiveness of that bottom to the the whole spanking?  Again, I suggest this