The moment of baring the bottom
The moment that dad pulls down his boy’s pants and bares his
bottom is uniquely significant in the whole spanking process. I would be very interested to hear what boys
and dads think about this moment.
Here are my perspectives.
As the boy, I feel that the moment my dad pulls my pants
down is perhaps the single most significant part of my spanking. It says so much about the relationship
between us. The words, “I’m going to
pull your pants down and smack your bare bottom hard, young man!” Are burned into my mind the way my spankings
have been burned into my bottom.
The basic reason for pulling down a boy’s pants before
spanking him is that it will hurt more.
However, I would suggest that this is not really the real reason for
doing it. I have been spanked on my
underpants and it hurts every bit as much as on my bare bottom.
I believe pulling a boy’s pants down is definitely more
about psychology than physiology. The
act of baring a boy’s bottom, without his agreement or
participation, is a very
firm indicator of who is in charge and it’s definitely not the boy. Being over dad’s knee with your bare bottom
in the air is a truly chilling sensation.
You are completely vulnerable and you feel utterly defenseless – as indeed
you are! The fact that dad has exercised
his rights to strip you says decisively – “I am in charge here, not you!”
If you had retained a shred of dignity up to that point,
with your bottom bared it is gone for sure.
I don’t know about other boys, but I always had a very clear picture of
just what I looked like at this point with my bare little bottom in the air and
every private area on display to dad.
If there is one silver lining to this it is that you have
been revealed to be the little boy that you are, there is no further down to
go. You are released from any necessity
to
behave like a man, over your dad’s knee with your bare bottom on display and
awaiting the sting of dad’s hand, slipper or hairbrush, you can behave exactly
like the little boy you know you are.
You can cry, whimper, beg, apologize – just like a little boy. In fact, dad quite expects that type of
behavior. Sometimes this can be a
relief.
Those are my thoughts on the “bare bottom” idea. I’d be very
interested to hear other people’s views.
Great blog post, Spencer. You are so right. This moment when the boy's bottom is bared doesn't seem to me to be about being more painful. No, not at all. It's about the Daddy's opportunity to really get into the boy's mind.
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