What it means to get spanked
As an adult boy, what does it really mean to you personally to get spanked?
We all know that spankings can be very painful in the moment and indeed for some days after in some cases, but is the pain the raison d’etre of these spankings for most of us?
For me, I would say not. I do not “enjoy” being spanked and on the few occasions when I have encountered a “top” and not a “dad” I have not liked the experience. Somebody who just wants to “beat my ass” with no real psychological interaction is not someone I want to play with.
For me getting spanked involves a complete transfer of power to the “dad.” The pivotal point of the spanking is that it is something that I really don’t want and yet is given to me anyway, without any need for my consent. ( of course this is 2 adults and I have given my consent in actuality). But returning to the fantasy scenario, here my “dad” has decided to spank me; he does not consult me and nor should he. It is his decision to make. Having made that decision, it is also his decision on how this spanking will be given. Will he pull my pants down and spank my bare bottom? Will he put me over his knee or bend me over a chair? Will he use his hand or his hairbrush? The intriguing part of the spanking is that I have no input. I have no say. In fact I am returning to boyhood when I also had no real say in when I was to be punished.
Once the spanking starts the lack of choice is further emphasized by the position you find yourself in. Either over your “dad’s” knee with your bare bottom fully exposed or bent over a chair with your bottom similarly exposed. This position is in no way to your advantage. You are positioned for your “dad’s” convenience so that he can smack your bottom. Spanking positions all have one thing in common, they are completely submissive positions. Once you are bare-bottomed over your “dad’s” knee, whether he actually smacks you or not, the point that you are under his full control is made. Similarly, if you are bending over, fully and voluntarily displaying your bottom as a target, you are under your “dad’s” extended control.
I do not enjoy restraint of any type. For me it is all about “dad’s” implied authority. “Dad” expects to be obeyed without question and by bending over and presenting your bare bottom for punishment, you are confirming that authority.
So for me the whole spanking experience is completely about the transfer of power. The sore bottom I invariably receive is only the physical expression of that transfer of power.
We all know that spankings can be very painful in the moment and indeed for some days after in some cases, but is the pain the raison d’etre of these spankings for most of us?
For me, I would say not. I do not “enjoy” being spanked and on the few occasions when I have encountered a “top” and not a “dad” I have not liked the experience. Somebody who just wants to “beat my ass” with no real psychological interaction is not someone I want to play with.
For me getting spanked involves a complete transfer of power to the “dad.” The pivotal point of the spanking is that it is something that I really don’t want and yet is given to me anyway, without any need for my consent. ( of course this is 2 adults and I have given my consent in actuality). But returning to the fantasy scenario, here my “dad” has decided to spank me; he does not consult me and nor should he. It is his decision to make. Having made that decision, it is also his decision on how this spanking will be given. Will he pull my pants down and spank my bare bottom? Will he put me over his knee or bend me over a chair? Will he use his hand or his hairbrush? The intriguing part of the spanking is that I have no input. I have no say. In fact I am returning to boyhood when I also had no real say in when I was to be punished.
Once the spanking starts the lack of choice is further emphasized by the position you find yourself in. Either over your “dad’s” knee with your bare bottom fully exposed or bent over a chair with your bottom similarly exposed. This position is in no way to your advantage. You are positioned for your “dad’s” convenience so that he can smack your bottom. Spanking positions all have one thing in common, they are completely submissive positions. Once you are bare-bottomed over your “dad’s” knee, whether he actually smacks you or not, the point that you are under his full control is made. Similarly, if you are bending over, fully and voluntarily displaying your bottom as a target, you are under your “dad’s” extended control.
I do not enjoy restraint of any type. For me it is all about “dad’s” implied authority. “Dad” expects to be obeyed without question and by bending over and presenting your bare bottom for punishment, you are confirming that authority.
So for me the whole spanking experience is completely about the transfer of power. The sore bottom I invariably receive is only the physical expression of that transfer of power.
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