As an adult boy, what does it really mean to you personally to get spanked? We all know that spankings can be very painful in the moment and indeed for some days after in some cases, but is the pain the raison dāetre of these spankings for most of us? For me, I would say not. I do not āenjoyā being spanked and on the few occasions when I have encountered a ātopā and not a ādadā I have not liked the experience. Somebody who just wants to ābeat my assā with no real psychological interaction is not someone I want to play with. For me getting spanked involves a complete transfer of power to the ādad.ā The pivotal point of the spanking is that it is something that I really donāt want and yet is given to me anyway, without any need for my consent. ( of course this is 2 adults and I have given my consent in actuality). But returning to the fantasy scenario, here my ādadā has decided to spank me; he does not consult me and nor should he. It is his decision to make...